Golden sand, gentle sea surf, incendiary atmosphere, and new acquaintances … A special atmosphere for enjoyment, fun, and your own story called “resort romance”. A female coach, and a psychologist, shared with DIP secrets that will not turn a beautiful acquaintance into a bitter disappointment.
This is not serious
Most resort acquaintances initially have an expiration date. As a rule, this is 9-11 nights of vacation. But despite the transience, it can be great, because before you is a great opportunity to enjoy new emotions and keep warm memories of a passionate vacation. It is necessary to treat such relations as simply as possible, follow some rules, and then the hopes of both participants will be justified.
Do not draw a bright future in a veil and be in the moment
Ask yourself a few questions. Do I know that this is a temporary connection? Do I want to dive into it? Will I be able to handle my emotions when it’s all over? If the answers are yes, you can safely go with the flow. Of course, then a continuation of the relationship may happen (if you suddenly want more), but let it be a pleasant surprise, rather than an initial calculation.
Relax in a buzz with mutual consent
We are all adults, and it is important to agree to any development of events with mutual interest and desire. You can allow a few days to be completely different and take positive emotions with you.
Everything that was in Vegas stays there.
The plot twist can be different. Someone is looking for a holiday romance consciously but is already in a relationship. Others are free, but also not ready to recognize a person in a different environment. People behave differently at work and leisure. Therefore, the book should be closed, and its characters should get what they immediately counted on.
A novel with a sequel
But there are exceptions and some holiday romances do not end with the date of departure from the hotel. A couple can begin to build relationships – harmonious, warm, and healthy. What to do if the plans are not only sex without obligations?
Don’t listen to sweet talk
Rather, you can listen, but they must be backed up by deeds and actions. Do not be afraid to ask for care, or courtship, ask questions about plans and look at the reaction.
Move as close as possible
You can always see a man who, without getting his own, sharply loses interest. If he wants more, he will join the game of chance – he will court, give gifts, ask questions, and be included in your life. Of course, there are no guarantees either. But at least you can get to know each other not only at the level of mutual chemistry and hormones but much deeper.
Chat after vacation
Many questions about the future should not be asked – you have not yet known each other so well. But you can always ask how and when we will meet next time and perhaps plan your next trip. The extent to which a man is turned on will determine all his further actions.
Both cons and pros
As with any relationship, resort romances can have different plot twists. Some couples continued to communicate after, and some just had a good time during the holidays. There is no need to chase illusions, it is important not to completely lose your head, trust your intuition and pay attention to details.